#Consistency is key

Every word within this video- Do you love your wife? Yes. Right. Prove it. Like, what's the metric? Give me the number. That helps me know. Right. Because when you met her, you didn't love her right now. You love her right? Tell me the day, the love happened. It's an impossible question, right? But it's not that it doesn't exist, it's that it's much easier to prove overtime, right? So all leadership is the same thing, it's about transitions. So if you were to, if you were to go to the gym, right? So like Exercise, right? If you go to the gym and you work out and you come back and you look in the mirror, you will see nothing. And if you go to the gym the next day and you come back and you look in the mirror, you will see nothing right. So clearly there's no results. Can't be measured. It must not be effective. So we quit, right? Or if you fundamentally believe that, this is the right course of action, and you stick with it like, in a relationship. I bought her flowers and I wish her happy birthday. And she doesn't love me clearly. I will give up. You know that's not what happens if you if you believe there's something there. You commit yourself to act, an act of service, you can make yourself to the regime. The exercise, you can screw it up, you can eat chocolate cake, one day. You can skip a skip a day or two, you know, you it allows for that. But if you stick with it consistently, I'm not exactly sure what day, but I know you'll start getting into shape. I know it and the same with the relationship. It's not about the events. It's not about intensity. About consistency going to the gym for 9 hours does not get you into shape working out every day for 20 minutes gets you into shape, but it's the daily practice of all the monotonous, little boring things like, brushing your teeth that matter the most she didn't fall in love with you because you remembered her birthday and bought her flowers and Valentine's Day. She fell in love with you because when you woke up in the morning, you said good morning to her before you checked your phone. She fell in love with you because when you went to the fridge to get yourself a drink, you got her one without even asking. She fell in love with you because when you had an amazing day at work and she came home and she had a terrible day at work. You didn't say yeah. But let me tell you about my day. You sat and listened to her awful day and you didn't say a thing about your amazing day. This is why she fell in love with you. I can't tell you exactly what day and it was nose particular thing. You did. It was the accumulation of all of those little things that she woke up one days, And this is if she pressed a button she goes, I love him. Follow us on TikTok @quotebibleplus?_t=8UWUhbU6oQX&_r=1 Instagram Display Social